Sunday 30 August 2009

28 Aug 2009 - Detail Scan at TMC

Had my detail scan at TMC.. appointment was 10.30am.. we reach at early... shawn woke us up very early.. so decided to have our bf at shunfu mkt ..then go down straight away..

Waited for awhile.. then i went in to do my scan first..while hubby wait outside.. take all bb measurement first.. was told bb very active ah.. then hubby was ask to come in..

we view bb together.. bb head is up near my rite breast now.. butt at lower rite side.. while legs are facing left side.. can c bb eye ball moving.. looking ard.. hand waving.. not shy bb.. open his leg wide.. n cfm is boi.. our darling boi to come :)

bb looks like have big foot like kor kor shawn wo.. hee.. i keep tell bb.. must b like kor kor shawn.. guai. n healthy.. then pa pa will ask me.. shawn very guai meh.. whahaha.. ofcos he is..

when i need to go out..with out bring shawn along.. i jus need to explain to shawn nicely.. tell him where i m goin.. he will wave to me.. give me flying kisses.. wont cry...

He will sit on my lap.. n we will watch barney together.. when i sing him "i Love u" he will hug me.. n kiss me..

He will greet nai nai every morning when he wake up.. brush his teeth using the new tooth brush.. finish his milk when we tell him not to waste the milk ah.. eat his medicine when he is sick..

 

 

 

Long update for the pass few wks

Havent been updating my blogs for wks.. last wk was a tough wk for me.. lots of thing happened,...

back to 22 Aug.. bought pepper to his annual check up n jab.. was shock to found out he got a tick at his neck.. no wonder he got a lump there.. must b painful n itch.. thk i reali neglected him after shawn was born.. poor pepper.. but lucky is only a isolated one.. let him apply some medicine on his back.. which will spread to his whole body within 24 hrs to kill the tick...

23 Aug.. decided to join hubby, ah di n yt to airport n do some work.. in order to meet fri dateline.. we quickly do our work then had our dinner at swensen.. have my baked rice n ice cream... we had a good time joking n laugh at the restaurant..

24 Aug.. as usual wake up work.. come back home.. then nite hubby, ah di n yt went airport to do the work.. tat nite.. hubby reach home at 2am... i was awake by shawn.. saw hubby come into the room to get his clothing.. then i ask him hows everything.. he shocked me with his answer... "ah di n yt met an accident.." i quickly sit up n ask wat happen.. how r they etc etc.. he refuse to tell me much at first.. but later.. i insist to know.. then i was told.. they r fine.. only slight injury.. hearing tat make me feel more relief.. but... they knock down rider n pillion.. both death on the spot.. my heart sunk.. i was so nervous at tat moment.. i insist i wana go there... hubby keep askin me dun go.. but tat was my brother.. ...

wake mil up to ask her over to look after shawn.. i get myself change.. then follow hubby n bil to the scene...

when i reach there.. i saw my di di n yt sitting nearby.. i reali wana cry.. feel so sad in me.. i wave at him.. he ask the police for permission to talk to me.. i was allow to walk to him... i hold on to his n yt hand... he cried... keep tellin me y the motorist wana dash thro the red light.. i try to consol him.. yt didn cry out.. but with tear in her eyes.. she was weak.. almost wana faint when we stand there to talk.. we help her back to sleep on the kerb.. n the police ask me to leave the scene le.. i walk back to my hubby... stand there n wait..

Policeman come to tell us..need to unload the goods in the vehicle.. so hubby went back to drive the lorry over to take over the stocks.. when bil stay with me n wait at the scene..

Hubby come back with FIL.. lucky bil n fil ard to help out.. we try to unload all the goods into the lorry... with yt follow us.. while ah di was hold back by the police.. we went back to ofc to unload all the goods.. then i drive yt home..

It started to rain on our way back to yishun.. yt refuse to go home.. insist wana follow us.. so i park ah di's car at yishun home.. when hubby shelter me out from the car.. i saw my mum waitin at the kitchen window.. it was 5am only.. so i call her.. not knowing how to tell her wat happen...

The first thing she ask was.. wat happen to di di.. i tell her he met an accident.. "then how is he"..i say he was fine.. she was like feel relief by hearing that... then i say.. but kill two ppl.. she was like "HAR".. i ask her wana go with us to traffic police ma.. she ask us to wait for her.. we went to nearby coffeeshop to have some drink.. hoping yt will calm down with the hot drink oso..

then we go to ubi traffic police.. was told by the police.. serious accident.. statement wld take a while to record.. so we decided to go back first..

had bf at my yishun place.. then ah di call n say he can come back le.. ask him to take a cab back..

26Aug.. yt was ask to go back to take statement.. but police said his statement all side ah di.. so most impt is the witness statement.. so got to wait for their..

28Aug.. Ah di went back police station to get the memo.. to collect the lorry..was told the witness statement has nothing against him.. but he will most properly have his licence suspend.. will wait for the judge to decide le.. everything will take 6-9mths to finalise..

29Aug.. nite.. ah di was us to bring him to 问神.. at clementi.. his fren father... we were told the deceased family dun wana let go so easily.. wan 一命换一命.. was told how to pray to help my ah di.. ask them to go downt he scene to pray..

my mum was so worry after hearing tat.. hai..

Thursday 20 August 2009

Result is out.. sad :(

I got my result on 17 Aug.. was hoping so much to clear my last two papers together.. but god wasn’t kind enough to me la..

I pass P1 but fail P3… I was SO disappointed with myself.. nvr been so upset over study b4 lol…

when I was on leave studying at home.. I keep myself in my room to revise hard.. is like I m using up my bonding time with shawn to study so hard for the exam.. (cos I clear up my balance maternity leave) n yet I didn make it…

at tat time.. I tell shawn .. “ mummy will study hard n try my best to pass my exam de.. wont disappoint him de…” BUT this is wat happen.. Sad!!!

I was telling hubby how disappointed I was.. but mayb he jus dun reali understand how I sad m i..

when I reach home.. I went to the bedroom.. sat on the bed… hug my pillow n start crying.. til hubby bring shawn into the room… shawn climb onto the bed… he pointed at my face n say “yer yer” … then he turn to look at daddy n start to cry oso le.. daddy tell shawn.. “mummy sad sad lol.. go hug mummy ah…”  Shawn turn ard n come to hug me.. n he tab on my back.. whaha.. so cute de.. he oso kiss me on my lip.. I must have frighten him… cos I nvr cry so badly infront of him…

Now I got to decide whether to retake this paper in Dec.. exam date is 16Dec.. while my Edd is 12Jan… is quite near to my edd.. can I make it???

18 Aug 2009 – Gyna visit

Bring forward my gyna visit from fri to tdy.. cos I was having pain on my rite tummy since sun whenever I pass urine.. the pain got worst.. was taking pain killer to ease the pain…

Took bus/mrt to compasspoint.. by the time I reach..hubby still haven’t reach.. (he was held back at work) so I submit my name to q..

When hubby arrive.. we went to buy old cheng kee to eat first.. sat at the bus inchg to eat.. while listen to hubby “story”.. ( he always talk abt his work place story one)…

Abt 7pm.. the clinic call me.. to get me back to clinic.. told Doc my problem.. was told might b urinal infection n uterus expanding tats y.. given some medicine.. antibiotic n potcit mixture to take…

Did my scan as usual.. doc ask my #1 is boi or ger.. I told him boi boi.. then he say.. no need to go shoppin liao.. he cfm this bb is boi oso.. :)

BB is abt 19-20wks old.. 336g now.. everything is fine :)

Hubby was laughin all the way.. b4 I leave doc room.. I even double cfm again.. boi hor.. hee

while waiting outside for my medicine.. hubby keep smiling n say.. “shawn goin to b kor kor le.. with di di ard.. he can teach him kick kick liao lol…” he even show me how to carry two boi.. one on each hand… whahaha…

Then I tell him.. “so good for u la.. got two boi to play with liao.. poor me.. lonely le lo.. next time home will have yin shuai yang sheng lol.. I got no ger to doll up n chat with le..”

He say we can try for 3rd one ah… like so easy for him to say lol.. hai.. man ah..

Went for my double fillet O fish.. hee.. I jus love tat..

Reach home at 8.30pm le.. shawn abt to sleep soon.. play with him a while.. tell him he is goin to have di di.. will he love di di.. he look at me.. wonder he know wat m I talking abt.. whaha..

Friday 7 August 2009

Something abt our future home

 
 
Fernvale Vista is one of the few projects offering new 2-room flats for sale since HDB stopped building them in the 1980s. There are 86 units of 2-room flats, 92 units of 3-room flats and 330 units of 4-room flats in Fernvale Vista.
Located at the corner of Fernvale Road and Sengkang West Avenue, it is a short drive from the Central and Tampines Expressways. Public transport is easily accessible with Fernvale LRT Station just opposite the development.
 
Fernvale Point, a private interim commercial development, is located next to Fernvale LRT Station.  It houses a wet market, supermarket, foodcourt and ATMs. There are also other eating places nearby at Jalan Kayu, located one LRT station away from Fernvale LRT Station.
 
Fernvale Vista offers standard flats without floor finishes in the living area and bedrooms. HDB is offering the Optional Component Scheme to buyers who wish to have ceramic floor tiles and/or internal timber doors installed.
 
The building of new 2-room flats is part of the Government's efforts to provide more affordable housing options for first-timer low-income households; second-timer households now have an additional option to downgrade to a 2-room flat.
 
 
FENGSHUI
Fernvale Vista sits on the land formation known as cricket teasing dragonfly, is just outside Seletar village. This is indeed strange, for crickets are often the ones who get bullied. Moreover, dragonflies are usually found near ponds or the sea. 
 
The area is low-lying, valley-like and enjoys plenty of underground water. As such, the land is Yin, ie, wet, dark and damp, and enjoys refreshing breezes.
 
It is a blessing that Fernvale Vista is located on Singapore's only feng shui cricket. As it is active and wields great supernatural power, it likes to poke fun at the mild-mannered dragonfly.
 
This formation enhances the residents' ability to build up their fortunes from scratch and achieve success in unimaginable proportions. However, this being the land of cricket teasing dragonfly, if residents do not cultivate themselves or progress methodically, they will find themselves sliding down the "snake" (akin to the game Snakes and Ladders). Businessmen who have suffered defeat must persevere if they want to benefit from this area's auspicious feng shui.
 
The seemingly-ordinary five rare talents formation is in fact very rare and will benefit those who choose to settle down here for good. As long as one continues to progress steadily even after tasting success, fruits will bear over a long period of time.
 
The nearby Seletar Expressway adjoins the other expressways, linking Fernvale Vista to Singapore Changi Airport in the east, Bukit Timah in the central and Tuas in the west. Leading to the two check-points, it is a vital northbound route. If Jalan Kayu is developed as well, the golden locust will advance in full force. It is only be a matter of time before the five rare talents formation unleashes its full potential.
 
Fengshui ratings: CCCCD
 
 
INVESTMENT & RESIDENTIAL
Connectivity to other parts of Singapore is ensured by the Tampines Expressway (TPE) and the new Kallang/Paya Lebar Expressway (KPE). The area is also served by the North-East MRT Line (NEL) via Buangkok Station and Sengkang station.
 
Town residents enjoy a comprehensive Light Rapid Transit (LRT) system that is integrated with Sengkang Station. Sengkang is the first town to have LRT planning integrated with town planning.
 
Furthermore, HDB is introducing UD (Universal Design) features in new residential developments to meet the lifecycle needs of residents and facilitate ageing-in-place. Such design features make a home safe and user-friendly for the young and old, including wheelchair users.
 
Fernvale Vista will be the first Built-To-Order project with UD features. These include ramps at main entrance, levelled floors throughout the flat, wider internal corridors, bedroom and toilet doors, wheelchair-accessible common toilet, space provision for future installation of grab bars in all toilets, as well as easily accessible switch sockets, TV outlets and telephone outlets.
 
Fernvale LRT station and Fernvale Point (an interim commercial development housing a wet market, supermarket, food court and shops) are within walking distance.
 
A gamut of educational facilities is available. These include Fernvale Primary, Seng Kang Primary, Nan Chiau High and Pei Hwa Secondary; Meridian Junior College is within reach at Pasir Ris. The proximity to the expressway also means that the Singapore Sports School is easily accessible via public and private transport. 
 
Recreational facilities are aplenty at the upcoming Sengkang Town Park and Sports Complex, to be situated along Sungei Punggol. The nearby Compass Point shopping mall is an integrated transport hub with MRT/LRT/Bus Interchange under one roof, together with comprehensive commercial, entertainment and shopping developments. 
 
Investment ratings: CCCCD
Residential ratings: CCCDD

Wednesday 5 August 2009

Some update of our future home




Our home is still under development.. not even reach our floor yet.. this pic are taken from a showflat at the site..

Monday 3 August 2009

To my hubby seng - I M SORRY!!!

Told hubby few day back.. i m craving for filetOfish.. the double fillet look so nice..

yty.. he went to ta bao back for me after work... but he didn tell me when i reach home.. n i was so piss off with shawn n mil..

by the time he rmb.. was dinner time 8pm ++ le.. he then told me he get me filetofish le.. i was angry.. ask him is he goin to keep for breakfast tml... i take half bowl of the porridge he prepare for me...

he ask me to eat the filetOfish.. i refuse.. say now still nice meh.. he ask me to eat few time.. i jus ignore him... ... ...

Hubby.. i really appreciate wat u did.. i was jus too fedup n worry for shawn last nite.. so sorry abt how i treat u last nite... i m sorry... u will still buy me filetOfish de hor... sorry dear...

He is driving me CRAZY liao

Shawn fever subsided.. tats wonderful.. BUT

since Sun nite.. he suddenly cry loudly n for nothing.. he throw tantrums... kick n kick.. roll on the bed.. refuse to let us carry.. i tot wats wrong with him.. hug n carry him up.. got a bite from him.. real bad bite.. with skin come out.. almost bleed..

yty.. wake up in the morning.. still cry for nothing.. duno wats wrong with him.. when i got home.. mil told us.. he was behaving like tat for the whole day.. anything he wan.. she dun give him.. he throw tantrums.. cry n stamp feet.. let him sleep.. n oso didn sleep for long..

i was so fedup with mil last nite.. partly i was worry with shawn oso la.. shawn cry .. she keep carry him.. even walk away from me.. i wld prefer to let him calm down himself.. but mil keep pamper him.. carry him.. wana bring him go out walk whenever he cry.. i insist dun bring him out.. i bring him to the room to rest.. sit on the floor..watch tv.. he was ok at first.. then suddenly.. again he cry n roll on the bed for nothing.. duno wat he wan.. i jus leave him crying there.. while i sit there n look at him.. n again.. mil come in to carry him.. i went to make him glucose water.. tot can give him some energy.. he look so tired.. but shawn turn away.. dun wana drink.. n mil again carry him away from me..

i reali angry.. but dun wana make thing worst.. so i went to my room n close the door... dun even wana take care of shawn for her to do her hsework ... since she wana carry.. i let her carry til she happy lol.. feel like asking her.. is she goin to carry him to sleep the whole nite.. dun forget.. nite time i look after.. he cry.. i cant b carry him whole nite rite..

til 9.30pm.. then hubby carry him into the room to let him sleep.. i make him milk.. let him sleep.. then he suddenly wake up at 11pm to CRY again.. i give him water.. pap him to sleep again..last 1 hrs of nonsense cry .. then on off the whole nite cry .. i was so stress up by him..

this morning.. he still behave like tat.. cry.. throw temper.. refuse to let ppl carry.. mil come in say wan carry him.. i say let him calm down himself.. dun carry.. she walk away.. by the time i need to go work le.. got to bring him out le.. he sit on the floor n cry ... mil sayang him.. n carry him up.. he slap .. use his head n knock mil.. kick.. hubby ask him not to.. (loud tone).. mil dun like tat la.. he sick ma.. she jus took pamper him liao lol..

told hubby.. if tonite still like tat.. i m goin to bring him to doc..

Tat how he think...

Me: Dear.. i reali envy my fren xxx, yyy, zzz all got one bor bor n one ger ger.. i scare i will b disappointed end of this mth.. when gyna tell me bb gender leh

Dear: Y disappointed?? bor or ger same ma.. oso our children rite.. u see shawn so cute..

Me: har na.. i oso tell myself.. both oso ok.. but i still hope for ger ma.. see them got bor n ger liao.. can close factory le wo...

Dear: they only got 1 bor 1 ger ma.. mayb we are mean to have 2 bor n 2 ger de la...

Me: XXXXxxxXXX (look at him eye wide open) u sure bo..

Dear: or mayb 3 bor 3 ger leh..

Me: * Faint *

Sunday 2 August 2009

Shawn having fun..




Taken on 31July2009 - Shawn having fever..




Taken while his fever subside.. after taken the fever medicine

My darling shawn having high fever since 28July2009 midnite... til now

His fever was still as high or even higher on day 3 n 4... decided to bring him to KKH on Sat nite.. did a blood test.. result was ok.. but how come fever still so high.. highest record was 40.5degree..

looking at my boy suffer.. reali make me so sad..

last nite his fever subsided.. i still wake up every 4hr to give him paracetamol.. one at 11pm..one dose at 3am.. check his temperature.. 37.4degree.. at 3am..

this morning.. his temperature is 37degree le.. looks like he can stop medicine le.. hope his diaorrea oso recover fast.. yty still poo 4 times.. n his appetite is still no good.. i give him diluted milk.. hope it will fill his stomach but wont worst off his diaorrea.. he cant even finish half bowl of porridge.. morning cereal.. he can only take half bowl... within 3 days.. he loss 1kg..

i thk tats bad.. hope he faster recover n gain back all the energy soon..

To shawn: Mummy hate to see u suffer.. u reali make mummy when u jus lay there.. so sick.. pls recover fast n hug n kiss mummy like b4.. u haven kiss mummy for the pass few days le..